Sunday, April 06, 2008
Betrayal
I borrowed the korean show "Qing wa wang zi bai jin nu" from my senior and finished watching it yesterday. I really hate one of the female character named "Dashun" inside. Kaoz, she's that kind who appear so kind and innocent in front of other people but is indeed the most evil one, going around back stabbing other people. This remind me of the painful incident several years back where i am back stabbed by my own best friend. I can still remember exactly what that feeling is like and can still feel the pain as i recall that moment when another friend break the truth to me.
After watching the show, i suddenly wonder how many "Dashun" are there in my office? I always like to whine and complain and basically my mouth works faster than my brain even when i am talking to seniors. I treat them as friends rather as seniors and tell them exactly what i think and plan to do. Will they back stab me too by telling the partners or mgrs what i tell them? Actually, its fine with me for that information to get to the ears of mgrs or partners but its the betrayal that is hurting. Someone once told me that seniors and assistants can nvr be true friends. I hope this is not true.
On thursday night, went for my engagement dinner at Grand Shanghai of Grand Corpthorne hotel. It is such a disappointment! The food is not fantastic and the bill came up to be $600+ for 10 people. Siao right? Most of us are still hungry after that meal. I seriously wonder whats wrong with rich people. With only 300+, we could have ate much better and nicer food. I kept on complaining to my senior, ha, i think she cannot stand me. The previous time my mentor dinner was buffet at cafe brios of Grand Corpthorne, that meal was much better and also cheaper. Its okay. I still got two more engagement dinners. Ha, my senior promise to bring us to "wu zhao pai" to eat seafood, yeah!
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