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Friday, March 16, 2007


friendship

Have been thinking alot nowadays, thinking about whether i am right or wrong in whatever i do. Those who know me well should know that i am a rather straightforward person, if i dun like something or think that something is wrong, i will tell you straight in the face. I have always tell my zhong se qing you friends that they are zhong se qing you. Sometimes some words hurt when people tell u straight in the face. But, if they dun care abt you, they cannot even be bothered to tell you. Last time when i was in sec sch, my hunch back situation is pretty bad. None of my friends pointed out that pblm to me except for one and her name is Vivien. I was really embarrassed when she said that i am hunch back in front of the rest of my friends but after that, i actually appreciated her telling me that cos i will be more conscious of my standing posture ever since. I am really glad that i have her as my friend cos true friendship means to point out each other weaknesses so that we can all improve along the way. Even though, i nvr keep in contact with Vivien now, i will always remember her as one of mine true friends and one who has left a positive impact on me.
I think trust is very important in a friendship or in any type of relationships. If there is no trust, there can nvr be a strong friendship. We will all be hurt by somebody along the way but that does not mean that we should build a barrier against other people as a result. I was backstabbed by my best friend from my primary sch and as result, some other close friends from primary sch also started to ostracised me (this all happen when i was in sec sch). I was super duper devastated when glo told me what my best friend say of me to the others behind my back. I rather she told me straight in the face. Only did then i realise what fake friendship was all about. So all my dear friends reading my blog, the next time i criticise u, plz understand that i am caring about you and trying to motivate u all to change and not that i am trying to hurt u or anything because i believe this is the only way true friendship should be.


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