Saturday, January 13, 2007
evryone have their own problems...
I got this friend who is sinking into the pits of depression bcos things havent been very smooth for her lately. We tried to encourage her but to no avail bcos she just refuse to change her own perception of things. If you think of failure even before u try anything, there is 99% chance that u will fail. Hope that if u are reading my blog, u know what i mean.
Everyone think that i am the strong girl living in a well to do family just bcos i am living in a condo and i got good grades. Who knows what exactly happen to me evrytime during my exams which make me study with tears? Nobody knows and even if somebody knows, there is nothing they can do to help me. Only we can help ourselves. I came from a poor family and i used to live in a three room flat. Even thou i am living in a condo now, that does not mean i am rich. My dad still owes the bank so much money due to the loan to purchase the condo. Now, my dad is contemplating to retire as his health is giving him much problems. I dun blame him for wanting to retire after toiling for thirty years plus. I need money for my graduation trip, i will not get a single cent from my dad cos he need money for his retirement and i need to help to support the family after i come out to work. I have decided to start work in july instead of august. Somemore, my sis is still in poly and she is planning to go to university too.
By writing all these, i am not trying to gain the sympathy of anyone. What i just want to say is that evryone faces their own problems and it is pointless to think that yr problem is the greatest in the world. There are pple who are even more unfortunate than us k. There are those who are born handicapped but they still carry on with their own life, making a difference in their own ways. So, i seriously believe that yr problem can be solved easily as long as u make an effort in doing so!
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